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Decoupling your finances in a divorce: How to divide your money

On Behalf of | Jan 10, 2023 | Family Law

Going through a divorce in Virginia can be a difficult and emotional experience, and one aspect that can be particularly challenging is figuring out how to divide your assets and debts. If you and your spouse are unable to come to an agreement, the court will decide how to divide your property and debts in a way that it deems fair and equitable.

Tips for dividing assets during a divorce

The best way to avoid conflict and stress in the financial decoupling process is to follow a sensible approach to dividing assets. Here are some useful steps you can take to help divide your money during a divorce:

Gather all financial documents

This includes bank statements, investment accounts, credit card statements, mortgage documents and any other documents related to your financial situation. It’s important to have a complete and accurate picture of your financial situation so that you can negotiate a fair settlement.

Make a list of all assets and debts

Create a list of all assets (e.g., houses, cars, jewelry) and debts (e.g., mortgages, credit card balances, student loans) that you and your spouse have accumulated during your marriage. Include the value of each asset or debt and any associated expenses.

Determine the value of your assets

Some assets, such as houses or cars, can be easily valued by looking at their current market value. Others, such as a small business or a collection, may require the help of a professional appraiser to determine their value.

Consider your individual financial needs

After you have a list of all your assets and debts, consider your financial needs. This includes your income, expenses, and any special circumstances (e.g., childcare expenses, medical needs).

Negotiate a settlement

Based on your financial needs and the value of your assets and debts, try to reach a settlement with your spouse that is fair and equitable. If you are unable to agree, you may need mediation.

Create a budget

After the divorce is finalized, it’s important to create a budget to ensure that you can meet your financial obligations. This includes paying your bills on time, saving for the future and making any necessary adjustments to your spending habits.

Make financial decoupling in a divorce as hassle-free as possible

Dividing your money during a divorce can be a complex process. By gathering all necessary financial documents, determining the value of your assets and keeping an open line of communication, you can help ensure that you can move forward financially after your divorce.